Tuesday, April 1, 2014

March Léogâne Updates

We are so thankful for you and your prayers, support, and encouragement as we all work together to help the kids in Léogâne, Haiti. 
It's been more than 2 months since our trip to Haiti. While normal life has picked back up quickly, including 2 of our own kids having birthdays, we find the memories from Haiti to be fresh and our desire to help the kids increased. We have some updates to share from the children and from our fundraising so far.
  • Twice in January, we had the privilege of hearing the CEO of GO Project speak about the successes from 2013 and the goals for 2014. Both times, he highlighted the working of orphan prevention through the funding of 6 pilot schools (our school in Léogâne is one of the six) as one of the biggest successes from 2013. They are excited about how it has worked and are hoping to roll it out to additional schools next school year. 
  • Specifically, in Léogâne, the school is impacting the community as hoped. Pastor Claude has made school almost free to the community and said that this is a huge evangelism tool for his church.  Church attendance is up, school attendance is up, financial pressure has been alleviated. Claude told GO Project that the community is thrilled with our school partnership
  • Sometime prior to our visit, 2 other care facilities closed and their children were moved to live at Eben Ezer Léogâne. GO Project did extensive research into each child's situation, met with family members, church leaders, school principals etc.  Most of the children did not have any family.  Those that did have family were in terribly difficult situations in communities where a school or church partnership was not possible.  A Social Worker made a judgment call for each child to stay at Léogâne. While we will continue to pray for future reunification into families for any of the kids at Léogâne, we are thankful that God, in His perfect timing, has brought these children to Eben Ezer Léogâne where they will be cared for, educated, and taught the love of Christ. This brings the total children in full time care there to 81.
  • We have much to celebrate in our fundraising so far! Praise God, $25,518.68 has been raised so far which is about 80% of what we need to raise for this school year. This money has repaired hurricane damaged roofs, provided closets for the children's home, and supported the monthly school budget for the school of 225 children. 15 staff members including teachers and support staff have full time jobs at the school. The children are being taught about Jesus and gaining an education. We witnessed it as we heard the kids speaking proper French, tell about school, and sing praise songs when we visited. Thank you to all who have prayed and contributed as we've seen God's hand work more than we could have imagined! 
  • At the same time, we still have $6642 that needs to be raised to cover the remaining school expenses for this year. Will you pray for the amount needed and consider if you can help? It is easy to make a donation online at https://my.goproject.org/project/gilmans-loving-leogane-kids/ . Here are some different ways you can help:
    • Make an intentional swap. Trade something you would do "out" and do it more cheaply "in" as an individual or as a family and donate the money you didn't spend to help Haiti. It could be as simple as trading a dinner, lunch, treat, or movie night. Invite friends or bible study group to do it with you. Sometimes it's hard to go do a service project with young kids, but this is a way you can involve your kids at home.
    • Sponsor one child's worth of schooling. It only takes $15 per month to send a child to school and that could be enough to keep his family together and give him a chance for his future in Haiti and his eternal future. You can make a recurring donation of any amount here: https://goproject.org/go-project/give/ongoing-donation/ . Be sure to put "Gilmans Léogâne" in the box to specify what the donation is for and send us a note, as there is a lag sometimes in the recurring gifts showing up.
    • Try something new. Host a GO Exchange event in your home. If you aren't with me in Niceville, I'll talk you through the setup and I'll join by Skype to tell your guests about how the GO Exchange is fighting for orphan prevention by providing jobs and skills to local workers so they can care for their family. And I'll tell about Léogâne and how the 25% of the sale goes to help the children and school there. (You get a discount on products for yourself as an added bonus). GO Exchange sends you a kit of all the product samples, order instructions, and video clips - it's fun and easy!
    • Choose a goal to work towards and raise money by telling others how they can support the kids in Haiti and help you meet your goal. 7-year old Josh Gornet and his family raised $600 by choosing to run a 5K as a family and telling others how they were doing it for Haiti. I hear it's easier to train when you've got the extra motivation of helping someone else too. Here's a sample of their page:  https://my.goproject.org/team/santas-helpers/
    • Share our updates or FB page with your own family and friends. You never know whose heart God will turn towards Léogâne, Haiti. I know we sure didn't see it coming and are so glad we heard about it at our church on Orphan Sunday.
    • Keep the children and Pastor Claude and the church and teachers in your prayers. We try to post prayer requests on our FB page and will continue to send updates. 

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Our day in Leogane


On Monday morning, we said goodbye to Pastor Moise and Francois as we loaded up to head to Léogâne.  While having a personal, parent-to-parent conversation with one of the couples from our team, Pastor Moise shared a personal testimony to God’s sovereignty.  He recounted for us the day of his oldest son’s death in the 2010 earthquake and his inability to do anything to even get to his boy let alone help him.  Pastor Moise was heartbroken to have money in his pocket and still be able to do nothing to overcome the incredible obstacles and chaos caused by the earthquake.  In his heart, he was convicted deeply by James 4:13-15, because he had said something in his communication as simple as, “I will see you tomorrow”.  He said, “From now on, no matter how trivial it may seem I will say, ‘If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that,’” and he encouraged us to do the same.

That thought, I arrogantly wanted to keep in the context of challenging life in Haiti.  However, God made it personal to us when we learned Wednesday that one of our friends from church died Monday evening, the very day Pastor Moise spoke that truth to us.  So hear God’s truth about the mist that is our lives, here today and gone tomorrow.  Hear it from Pastor Moise, those on our team who know it to be true and hear it from us.  Our lives are in God’s hands, and only He knows whether we will have a tomorrow, so treat each day as the gift that it is and acknowledge that we get tomorrow, only “if the Lord wills” it.
We departed for the southern peninsula toward Léogâne on roads we had not yet traveled and saw some interesting sights along the way.  Burning dump, beautiful gulf, UN soldier for first time, police checkpoint, lush green countryside.  Ironically, the most nervous I am the entire time I’m in Haiti is at the police checkpoint.  They decide to stop us long enough to talk to our driver, and I start wondering what sort of ‘special’ treatment a vanload of ‘blancs’ will get.  However we are on our way again soon enough, and we learn from our translator the police were just advising we cover our luggage rack on top with a tarp next time, because we are an obvious target for robbers.  We chuckle to ourselves a bit to think just how disappointed the robbers would be to open our bags full of hygiene products and lightly used shoes destined for the orphans in Léogâne.
Turning off the main road toward the Eben Ezer Léogâne village, I detect involuntary smiles starting to spread across several faces.  This area is so clean and green it is inviting, and as we start seeing the colorful hand painted designs on the exterior of the village wall, we are excited to be here, outside of Port au Prince (PAP).  We turn into the village and notice first a youth-sized soccer field, covered in grass spreading out before us.  As we come to a stop the kids start approaching the van eager to greet us.  We unload from the van, like clowns from a clown car and are each taken by the hands and elbows and led around the village.  The children are more numerous at 90+ than we expected, because recently 30-40 additional children came from another village that could no longer care for them.  We are greeted by Pastor Claude and Carline who directly take us on a tour.  It is a rather comical sight the lot of us trying to walk some narrow paths and entryways with multiple kids attached, but what we see and are told is so encouraging.
We see freshly painted buildings with bible verses and cheerful murals on them.  One of the school houses has the nurse’s station at the back, and we meet the nurse, Roseleine, who has teaching responsibility also.  The children eagerly point out the section of the school room that is their particular “classroom”, and some of the girls explain to Cori in French that they are studying reading, writing, math, French, science, bible, and civic (social studies).  Especially as we have prayed for this school, it warmed our hearts to see the kids so excited to show it off! The cafeteria has reminders to pray before eating and pray particularly for missionaries.  It is there I learn that Pastor Claude was himself an orphan whose life was forever change by a missionary from Texas.  It is a personal charge from Pastor Claude that the children pray for those who come to Haiti bringing Jesus’ love and hope, because he is forever grateful to the one who came to him.  As we continue around the grounds, we see children’s homes, mamas doing laundry, produce grown on site (coconut, bananas, mangos, peas, and avocado), chicken coops, a well, a new children’s home with TV room upstairs, the church where children gather an hour before school starts to worship the Savior by flashlight, colorful playground equipment and a new construction which is to be a guesthouse.  Wait…worshipping God by flashlight an hour before school starts?  Oh, Lord, grow in us the discipline to love and praise you with such dedication!
Following the tour we spread out a bit and begin playing with the children each in our own way, some sing, some sit and are smothered with children just wanting to be held, some play games, but Derek tries to get a soccer game going.  He succeeds, but the first time he takes the ball away from one of the boys, he is asked to leave…big bully. ;-)  Some of the team takes the bags of supplies and shoes to a storage room for the staff to sort through later, and Carline expresses much gratitude because we have brought “things of value” that they needed greatly including shoes and school supplies.
 Cori has a special moment singing with 3 of the girls: Withlie, Ketleine, and Chilove. Withlie begins singing a praise song in French, and Cori recognized it as “Here I am to worship” and began singing along in English. The two voices blending in two languages with words praising the same Lord will serve as a trip highlight reminding of God’s love for the nations and how we are bound together as a family in Christ. The girls also sing “Lord, I lift your name on high” in both French and English and “Every move I make” in just English. We daydream of taking a guitar on a future trip so that we might sing these songs and others along with the Léogâne kids.
 
After a little more recreation, we call all of the kids together to tell them about Jezi’s example of washing His disciples’ feet and then actually demonstrate it.  The foot washing begins orderly enough, but as dozens of kids waiting in long lines to get their feet washed start seeing how fun it is, the lines break down.  I’m fairly certain we washed over 150 pairs of feet, especially since some kids came back for seconds and thirds.
 Shortly after washing feet, Cori gets to talk with Pastor Claude about the school and explains why she is so passionate and interested in it.  Pastor Claude lights up, with even more excitement and runs/drags Cori over to where Derek is so he can talk to us both at once.  Our friends, family and partners here is what GOD is doing through YOU, which is exciting enough to make Pastor Claude run through the village:
1.     Pastor Claude no longer has to turn children away from the school.  He readily tells struggling families in the community that their children can come empty-handed and receive hope for the present and hope for the future.
2.     Eben Ezer Léogâne can afford to pay good wages, up to three times what some were making before, to the teachers and staff.  The school retains passionate educators, happily dedicated to inspiring the next generation, able to care for their own families and help others.
3.     He quoted Matthew 25:37-40 and reminded me to tell our partners that when we help with food, care, schooling, etc for these orphans that we are doing it for Jesus.
YOU and GOD are at work together with CAREGIVERS and EDUCATORS in Léogâne changing the daily lives of struggling families and orphans TODAY!  YOUR prayers and gifts are making a difference DAILY!  Thank you for your faithfulness, because seeing the result firsthand was the experience of a lifetime!
Later on, Derek and Steve, take enough rubber bands and chopsticks to teach a dozen kids how to make fishtail bracelets and go looking for a table big enough to work on.  Finding one, they distribute the chopsticks and start setting out the rubber bands, so the kids can pick their colors.  The rubber bands quickly disappear as these children who have almost nothing to their name grab handfuls for themselves and pocket them.  We manage to teach just a few kids how to do half a bracelet each with the bands we can grab before they are gone, several end up with ‘rings’.


The journal/notebook with our kids’ pictures on the front continued to be a hit with the kids.  Our little Haitian friends liked to hear our kids’ names and ages and then recite them back to us.  It helped with learning names and ages that the bigger kids liked to write their own name and age in the book.  Now we have treasured pages with many of their own names written in lovely cursive (and we added description of their outfits so we can match names with pictures for years to come).  Before leaving, Cori slipped away on the self-guided tour to capture the campus in pictures.  She saw kids helping with chores, met a Mama named Darlinj doing laundry, and was awed by the humble and simple kitchen where they manage to make meals for the 90 kids twice a day. In her encounters with the Mamas, Cori tried to convey in French how much we admire their hard work and heart in caring for the kids, how well-behaved and kind the kids are and that we are praying for them.  Though I’m not sure this all got through clearly, they did understand that we pray for them.

Each village we visited we connected with a few children and Léogâne was no exception.  Derek had Meddina by his side every moment he wasn’t kicking the soccer ball, Shilov when she had something clever to say and Kevins when Derek was doing something cool.  In addition to the girls she sang with, Cori often had Icile or Shalonda by her side and enjoyed getting to know some of the older girls who spoke French well. Leaving was hard each day, but eased by the prospect of keeping in touch and seeing the kids again.  Those smiles, smiles that belie a tragic past depriving them of parents and many aspects of childhood, capture your heart.  The children’s smiles are a tangible reminder that there is hope and joy found in our Savior, Jezi.  That hope and joy is as real to the children as the breakfast I ate this morning is to me, and it’s Jezi’s love and promise to care for them that sustains it.  These children know faith, because they exercise it daily.  They don’t have the luxury of putting it on the shelf when life gets ‘comfortable’, because that isn’t part of their reality.  We were challenged to believe afresh in the God who comforts the weak & weary while patiently calling the distant back to Himself.
The drive from Léogâne, southwest of PAP, to Jumecort Inn, in a region called Croix de Bouquets, on the Northeast side of the city during rush hour was long and tiring, lasting more than 2 hours.  We continued to be saddened and affected by the living conditions in the city and the masses of people that are just everywhere.  We were amazed at how many people could fit in the back of a “tap-tap” which is a pickup truck turned public transportation, painted brightly with benches along each side of the truck bed.  We were refreshed to be at Jumecort where we could take a shower to rinse off the day (all cold but with good water pressure), shoot baskets on the new hoop before dinner, and relax on the patio with cold drinks.  We had a delicious dinner of beans, rice, and red sauce (the staple of every meal), fried chicken, cheesy potatoes, and a spicy slaw called “pikliz”.  We felt like our brains were still going a mile-a-minute with things to remember from our special day, but our bodies were tired and ready to just enjoy the moments of relaxing and bonding with our teammates.  We had a team meeting where we shared “highs and lows” and did our first bead ceremony which was a meaningful way that we encouraged each other by recognizing moments of risk, compassion, service, or leadership that we’d seen others exhibit.  Our team leader, Brandi, closed out the night by sharing two poignant stories that reminded us to not hold too tightly to the things God has given us to be good stewards of but to share them freely because God often multiplies the effect way more than we realize.


Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Our trip to Haiti - Days 1 and 2

Our first trip to Haiti was special, because of the people, both Haitian and American. The American team we travelled with was from different places and different walks of life, but with a common love of children. A love we wanted to share with the orphaned children of Haiti. The Haitian people who made the trip special were pastors, children, linguists, teachers, mamas and support staff, all with a passion for nurturing and educating the orphaned children of Haiti.

The team we travelled with was led by a woman and her husband from Columbia, MO who had travelled to Haiti many times. She was also in country ahead of us as she helped lead a Vacation Bible School (VBS) in the northern part of the country, Gonaives, the week prior to the rest of us arriving. She was strongly supported by a woman and longtime friend who also arrived ahead of us to work the VBS and had been to Haiti many times. This woman and her husband were the ones from O’Fallon, MO who introduced us to Global Orphan Project, the organization which connects us to Haiti and facilitated some logistics for the trip. Next on the team was a young father who is friends and business partners with the O’Fallon couple and lives in St. Louis. One couple joined us from Denton, MO, was related to our trip leader and traveled way more than the rest of us, requiring 4 flights to get to Port au Prince, Haiti. Another pair, were a father and daughter from Aurora, NE, with the daughter having just graduated from the University of Nebraska in December and knew the couple of O’Fallon. Cori and I completed the American portion of the team, a couple of career vagabonds currently calling Niceville, FL, and our extended family at First Baptist Church, home. Despite our apparent diversity, we really became one team quickly, establishing a comfort and a genuine enjoyment of one another’s company within the first 24 hours. Our creative Creator is somehow more apparent when He brings people together in this way.


 Friday, January 3rd
We depart for Miami Airport (MIA) via Pensacola Airport (PNS). Moving nearly 250 pounds of luggage to and from airports is actually fairly strenuous exercise it turns out, especially when some bags don’t have wheels. Overnighting in a Courtyard Marriott near MIA worked well, but hopefully we won’t be competing with Orange Bowl ticket holders for a room next time we go to Haiti and can stay someplace a little better suited to us.


Saturday, January 4th
We are helped through the check-in process masterfully by a SkyCap named Travis Washington. Somehow we went from attempting to check bags curbside, while actually needing to be inside by policy, to being fully checked in, with no baggage fees and seats changed to the exit row. I’m not really sure how he did it, but I am thankful Travis was there to bring us through the truly chaotic international check-in area of American Airlines. We met our team at the gate for our flight to Port au Prince (PAP), and for each of us it was the first time we had met most of the others. The flight to PAP was uneventful, but on the ground in Haiti, the adventure began. While escaping PAP airport was not the free for all it had been in the past, we had many locals trying to ‘help’ us with claiming bags and getting to the van. Ultimately, everyone’s bags arrived and made it safely to the van, which had made it safely to the airport ahead of us with our leader, translator, security guard and driver of course. With an amount of tipping that would have made other Caribbean airports envious, we were on our way.

Our drive took us past evidence of continuing improvement in PAP and yet parts of the city containing the most deplorable living conditions I have ever seen in my travels. The absence of waste removal, a comprehensive sewage system and the means to maintain personal hygiene, combines badly with a lack individual interest in keeping the resultant mess away from dwelling spaces. Add to that livestock given freedom to roam in the city and cap it with burning waste in the midst of it all, and you have a smell and a haze that at best were disheartening and at worst was oppressive. We learned that Port au Prince has 2.5 million people living in it, and each alleyway or nook was filled with people or make-shift housing.


Our first two nights in PAP we were privileged to stay in guest quarters at Pastor Moise and Francois’ home. There we got hear Pastor Moise’s heart for the lost and hurting worldwide and be filled by Francois’ skillful cooking. Together they made us feel like family and enabled us to experience Haiti in a special way.


After dinner we finished combining and sorting the supplies we each brought for the orphans and caregivers at three different sites. While doing so, Pastor Moise sneaks off to buy us some delicious piña colada and rum raisin ice cream. Anything that is cold is a treat in Haiti, which we appreciate even more after a few hot days.











En route to Haiti, we had been offered the chance to teach and follow Jesus’ example from John 13 by washing the Léogâne children’s feet. This added a little anxiety to the adventure, but with a couple of days to prepare, we readily agreed. Just before going to bed that first night in Haiti, we find out we get the opportunity to do the same at the first orphan home we’ll visit in west PAP overseen by a church called Source de la Grace. Tomorrow afternoon is even sooner than we’d planned, but washing orphans’ feet is a privilege, so we read and pray to be ready by then.


Sunday, January 5th
Sunday morning starts slowly after the first of what would be many tough nights’ sleep. Roosters, dogs and cats are all nocturnal in Haiti apparently (sarcasm)! That was the good news. The bad news was one of our team had been up all night with a stomach bug he’d brought with him (we learned later his son in the States had it too). But, a hearty breakfast and a few cups of coffee later we were off to church, Source de la Grace, which Pastor Moise had planted, and he was going to be preaching this morning. That may sound strange, but Pastor Moise by God’s grace has planted some 6 churches now and spends most of his time training and discipling young pastors.

To describe for you how brightly the church shines in the midst of the poverty and hardship, is hard without spending more time characterizing the surrounding community. However, in spite of poverty, filth, voodoo, corruption, drugs, gangs, prostitution, and many other forms of heartbreak surrounding the church, it shone brightly as Christ’s city on a hill. It was immediately clear how much pride and care the members took of the church campus which included a school and orphan home also. In addition, the Haitians love to really dress up for church, and it is a beautiful sight to adults and children decked out in Sunday finest. We were welcomed with headsets (to hear the translator) and
reserved seats. We worshipped in Creole and French with passion, crying out to God as though our very lives depended on it as though it was essential to bring us close enough to God to not be separated from him in days until we could gather again. One of the choruses we sang, “Dieu, Nous voulons voir ta glorie. Descend, enseigneur, parmi nous » translates to «God,we would like to see your glory. Descend, Lord, among us”. One of the readings was Psalm 108:3, “I will praise you, O Lord, among the nations. I will sing of you among the peoples” which summed up exactly what we were doing as we worshipped in a language we don’t even speak. It was clear that God’s favor falls on those who cry out to him wherever there are and from whatever darkness they may be in. Later during the message we are reminded of how important it is to live in the presence of God, to recognize that He truly dwells within us and that wherever two or more are gathered in His name he is present. Jezi Kris, Jesus Christ, is alive and at work in Source de la Grace. Glory to God!




Following the service, we learn that we will get to personally deliver some of our supplies to the orphans at Source de la Grace. We are stunned. Never did we imagine that we would get such a privilege. Cori and I work together to arrange the shoes we had brought on behalf of Boy Scout Troop 553 in Niceville, while others set out dresses for the girls and hats for the boys.










In a room of the church, we get to fit each child for the shoes and clothes that best suit them. There is no feeling like seeing Jergen’s or Jasmine's eyes light up as we put a pair of sandals on their feet.








These children were not shoeless, but for many, they are growing so fast that they were clearly ready for a next size or two up and they had gotten most of the ‘goodie’ out of the only pair they had.









 Later as we toured the children’s home, we saw the new pairs of shoes laid on each child’s bed marking them as a possession now unique to that individual child. After each child has come through, we grab a quick snack of mashed hotdog salad, called “pass” and head out to the orphan’s home to spend the afternoon playing.
 
With our trip team altogether in the orphans’ home, we play a little and then quickly move to washing the kids’ feet. Our translator Zimbil Hans reads John 13 in Creole and then Derek briefly explains Jesus’example in washing his disciples’ feet and that we will be washing their feet. The team enthusiastically brings the kids to the water basins two at a time and carefully washes each dirty little foot. The kids, giggle and squirm and beam and enjoy the attention.



The orphans are not big on personal space, but prefer to soak up as much physical contact as they can, readily taking hands of our team members and holding to arms and clothes when the hands are full! All of the kids really enjoy the camera, often taking pictures for us and always wanting to see the “preview” of what the photo looks like afterwards. After the washing Derek makes friends with Modlin Pié and eventually they join an UNO game that Cori has started with a large group of children. Cori bridges the communication gap with French which some understand, and despite some squabbling, some obvious cheating and eventually dispatching of the rules altogether, UNO entertains for nearly an hour. Part way through UNO, Derek makes two new friends in Wilna who has some disability in one or both of her legs and Sarah the youngest and daughter of one of the “mamas” or on site caregivers. Eventually they break away from the UNO game and the two little girls make quite a game out of tackling a seated Derek into a dried spot of chicken poop he was unaware of. After much cackling and chanting Derek learns from the translator why they are laughing so hard and promptly relocates them to another part of the grounds for dancing, twirling, piggy back rides and some hide and go seek. One of the older girls, Samantha who is 13, has been pretty stoic and unwilling to smile for most of the afternoon of playtime but then she stumbles upon the front of Cori’s notebook that is covered in pictures of our 3 kids. She loved pointing at each girl and hearing about their ages and then chanting back their names to us. After that smiles and hugs were regular from Miss Samantha.


We returned home to a delicious dinner of beans and rice with red sauce, fried chicken, potatoes and carrots, beets, and a dessert treat of cake. During and after dinner, we got the privilege of hearing Pastor Moise share his heart. He shared his testimony of how God has called him into church planting, his vision for the orphan care and loving these 25 children as his own, and his hopes for future church planting. God has done amazing things through this man and he has endured much hardship, but he displays humility and passion, giving God credit and glory in all he does. We will be praying for Pastor Moise, his many ministries and his wonderful wife Francois whose servant heart ministers to the family, orphans, and church constantly.

Friday, November 22, 2013

Buy your Gifts and Change lives at the Same Time!

Do you know why I'm excited about Christmas shopping this year?
Because I've found a way to buy quality gifts for the people I love and to have the money also go into the world to make a difference in the lives of the poor and needy at the same time.

A friend here in our new town started this by approaching me to do an Origami Owl jewelry fundraiser for the month of November where she would donate ALL of her profit to Gilmans Loving Léogâne Kids. God began to quickly multiply her idea and now 7 different businesses are donating their profit for sales through the fundraiser too.

Interested in beautiful, personalized jewelry? Check out the lockets and bracelets at Origami Owl. (Good for Moms and Grandmas too!) Origami Owl: http://kayleechord.origamiowl.com/parties/corigilman13121/how-to-build.ashx
The party code, if needed, is: CoriGilman13121 

Like to cook or know someone who does?
Pampered Chef: www.pamperedchef.biz/thecollinskitchen Look for it under the organization Gilmans Loving Leogane kids when looking for the party in the top left corner 
Tastefully Simple:www.tastefullysimple.com/web/kwhitegon (Search for a party and put in first name Gilmans, last name Kids)
Looking for purses, bags, totes, and more:
Thirty-One: www.mythirtyone.com/rcarter  Search My Parties for Gilmans Loving Leogane Kids fundraiser
Who likes things that smell good?!?
Scentsy: https://tessdarling.scentsy.us/Scentsy/Home?partyId=209799341
Do your kids, nieces, nephews, and friends like to read?
Usborne Books and More:www.itsaliterarything.com Just select shop and then select the gilman party. 
Half of my personal Christmas list comes from this site! The PJ pants, scarves, purses, T-shirts, and Sandals are made in Uganda and Haiti, providing jobs for the families who can then better care for their own kids and the kids in the community. Then, the GO Exchange also donates 100% of the profit back towards orphan care too. 
The GO Exchange: http://thegoexchange.org/index.php/the_goex_brands . If you purchase, simply put "Gilmans" in the Ambassador or Affiliation box during checkout. 



Often times the best gift for that person who seems to already have everything they need is to simply make a donation in their honor to a good cause. If you are considering that this Christmas, would you consider donating to the school and orphan prevention efforts of Gilmans Loving Leogane Kids?

A slightly more tangible way might be to give the gift of a chicken. The campus at Eben Ezer Leogane has a chicken farm as a way to support the orphans that live there. The chickens are doing well there. Can you add to the mix?

I have some other favorite sites that benefit the world when you shop. If you have others will you share them with me so that I can check them out too?
Beautiful jewelry made in Kenya in support of the artisans and ministries to widows and orphans
http://backtoafrica.myshopify.com/ (Specifiy Christy Wyatt in the checkout process and a portion also goes to a friend's personal fund to adopt a child from Ethiopia)

Delicious coffees yum from around the world. My love language - I think so!
https://justlovecoffee.com/about/beneficiary/teamwyatt/ (Benefits clean water and my friends adoption fund)

http://www.coffeegiveshope.org/orphan/ (Haitian coffee to benefit the Haiti Orphan Project in conjunction with GO Project)

Happy Shopping!!




Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Our Story

Today I want to share the story behind the story. This past spring, we felt God clearly communicate to us that He had work for us helping the children of Haiti.

In our first few blogs, we've shared the WHAT of our work with Global Orphan project to advocate and fund raise for the children of Léogâne, Haiti but I've never taken the time to write about WHY. Why us? Why now? Did this come up out of the blue or had we been planning it for a while?
The short version is we feel like God called us to this work, and we are going to be obedient and follow Him trustingly.

It’s hard to pinpoint when He started working in us towards this. In fact, I know He was doing it well before I can try to guess. So, we’ll start with March 1, 2012.  On this day, God swooped in to our life with a surprise.  Derek got a surprise phone call at work from the Air Force Personnel Office “offering” him a unique AF assignment in St Louis, Missouri. We had less than 3 hours to make the decision about whether to stay in GA (like we wanted to) or take the leap of faith that God was ready to “move” us. Even in 3 hours of praying, deliberating, pro/con list-making, and maybe a little bit of “I don’t wanna move”, God was faithful in providing us an answer: a peace in our heart and a scripture verse, Isaiah 55:8-9 “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord.  “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” He followed through by faithfully providing us all we needed to move to St Louis, including just the right rental house and the right church.  And, he used our time in St Louis to introduce us to the Global Orphan Project.

Our St Louis church, Crosshaven Church, is a vibrant church that lives out its mission through serving the community that we lived in. In particular, one Sunday in November the church celebrated Orphan Sunday, and our pastor had invited a local couple to come speak. This couple shared the story of how they had built an orphanage in Haiti and fund-raised to support the livelihood of the 40 children who would be living there. They had done it with Global Orphan Project, and each year, they go back to see the kids and worship at the church there. I believe God gifts us with imaginations, and this idea excited Derek’s imagination immediately. He couldn't stop daydreaming about it! We were so stunned that “you could just build an orphanage in Haiti” and we began to research it through the Global Orphan project website, goproject.org. We had been feeling God’s tug on our heart more and more towards helping and loving orphans, especially as we've experienced such great joy in this wonderful family He has given us. Even as we’d felt that tug, we hadn't felt called towards adoption or fostering. Now we had an idea in front of us that excited us: it was very tangible, it was hugely impactful for current and future orphans, it was something we could do as a family and involve our kids in, it would be sustainable (based on the way GO Project models its programs for the long-term), it did not depend on where we lived, it was a place we could visit periodically to truly connect with the kids…and the list went on!

We didn't stop thinking about it through the winter holiday season and at the beginning of January, we contacted the family, Randy and Tiffany Wild, who had spoken at our church and invited them over for coffee. We had so many questions, and they graciously spent almost 3 hours of their Sunday afternoon with us, sharing stories of the Wild House of Hope and their Haiti experiences. As we ended they gave us the number for Adrien Lewis with the Global Orphan Project and urged us to contact him when the time was right. Our excitement was deterred by the worst sick and flu season our family has ever had. God’s timing is perfect and in March, we contacted Adrien to tell him that we would like to get involved.

In our first conversation with Adrien, we explained that we were interested in building an orphanage, or more accurately, a children’s home in Haiti like the Wilds did. He asked us lots of tough questions about our reasons and specifics about what we felt God was calling us to do, which were very helpful to encourage self-reflection. Ultimately Adrien explained that they did not need any new children’s homes at the time and did not have any church in Haiti ready to support a new one. He asked if we would pray about getting involved and financially supporting other construction needs one of the existing villages might have such as a security wall, a bathhouse, or repairs on existing structures. We left that conversation open minded and confident we would get involved somehow, but also a little down because we’d been excited about the idea of building an orphanage. As we ended this first phone call, Adrien urged us that he felt the Holy Spirit telling him to tell us that “this is going to be bigger than you think it is”.

The next time we got in contact with Adrien a few weeks later to learn what specific construction needs might be suited to our help. He told us that he’d be happy to tell us about construction needs but that he had something different he wanted to tell us about. He wanted to tell us about orphan prevention. He explained that Go Project had learned a lot in their years of church-led orphan care in Haiti, and that one of the things was that education and food (or lack of ability to provide these) are two of the main reasons that a desperate family might abandon a child into orphan care.The parents’ might give up a child hoping to get him or her a better life. Knowing this, GO Project was going to start a new initiative to help prevent orphans by fully funding the budget of their church-based schools.  Almost all schools in Haiti are private and too expensive for local villagers’ children to attend. By fully funding the schools that already existed at the GO Project sites, the churches could provide scholarships  to the children of needy families in the community. GO Project could also improve the quality of education through teacher training and consistent staffing. The plan would also involve feeding every school child  a meal during the school day. In a country where 2 meals a day is a luxury, a free meal at school is a BIG deal. Adrien explained that approximately 6 schools in Haiti would be the first to really implement this concept in the fall of 2013, but that those 6 schools were not funded yet. We were intrigued by the idea of orphan prevention and asked a lot of questions, including the big one, “How much money do you need to raise to fund a whole school?” The answer made me gulp…$3000 per month was the approximate amount needed, for a grand total of $30,000 each year. I asked another question in a small voice, “Adrien, can we fund half a school maybe?” His answer was spot on, “Yes you could fund half a school. There are no specific rules, and we’d gladly use whatever money God prompted you towards. But should you?” Before we left the conversation, Adrien shared a personal story and gave us some wise advice. He explained that often in a big decision, one tends to pray for God to give clarity on the right path. He challenged us instead to pray for conviction.  That we would just know in the core of our being that God was convicting us to act in one way or another even if the exact details were still not clear at all.

We took that advice to heart and began to pray for conviction. That Thursday night, Derek prayed for conviction and then opened his eyes and chuckled that “nothing happened yet”. And yet, God works mysteriously and quickly. When Derek woke up the next morning, he felt a huge joy and excitement about raising money for orphan prevention. In addition, he felt strongly that we should not only commit to raise the amount for the school’s annual budget but also fully adopt an orphan village such that we would also financially meet construction-type needs as they arose. Derek said “It’s hard to describe something as supernatural as the working of God’s spirit but as a left-brained fellow, I haven’t felt like this often”.

It took a few more days for God to really get ahold of me as I was praying, but when He did, I felt it most as if He was asking me the question “What are you afraid of Cori?” (This was actually a very similar feeling to how I knew He was calling me to quit my job and become a stay at home mom 2 years ago). Well first, I was afraid of the huge amount of money. It’s interesting that when we wanted to build an orphanage , the “price tag” was an amount that I could imagine the end of how we could fund it. It would have been a “stretch” but my planner-self saw it as “big but do-able”. This new number of $30K per year was my big hang-up, and now my husband was telling me he felt like we should add in construction needs too! I’m classically good at trying to do things on my own strength, and God made it clear that He was going to give us a goal so big that I knew from the very beginning that there would be no way to do it without His hand on it the whole time. Two key verses gave me hope. John 14:12-13 “Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.” and Philippians 4:19 “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” The 2nd thing I was afraid of was timing. I kept telling God, “This is a crazy busy time! We are about to move and we have to find a new house too. Surely you don’t want us to do this right now”. I felt Him answer that I’d have to trust him now with my capacity, my energy, and our future housing. (Sitting now on the other side of this, I’m so thankful for how God provided enough energy to get us through starting this and moving, and He faithfully provided a wonderful home for us here in Niceville and renters for our GA house as well). Finally after wrestling with these questions and fears, I felt a peace and excitement and a knowing that this was right and now was the time.

On April 5th, we called Adrien again to tell him our good news, that indeed we felt convicted and wanted to move forward to sponsor a school in Haiti and the corresponding orphan village too. After hearing us describe how God had been speaking, he added his part to the story. He explained that he had sensed from the beginning and continued to feel God leading him that “this was going to be bigger than we thought it would”. He said he had never interacted with a family quite like he had with us. Typically he would connect the dots between an interested donor and a need but that he had never felt led to push someone to consider something so different and so much bigger than what they’d initially come to him with. God was at work! For weeks, scripture felt so alive as it seemed like everything we read and songs we heard all seemed to relate to Haiti and confirm our decision. As we talked with Adrien on April 5th, he described 2 orphan villages and churches to us to pray about, and ultimately that’s how Eben Ezer Léogâne became the village that has our heart and our focus.

6 months later, we've seen God provide so much towards the goal and surprise us in the ways and timing by which it has come in. Almost $19K has already been donated (61%) of the total goal. This money has fixed damaged roofs for the children’s home and has begun to fund the school. This year 225 children attend Eben Ezer Léogâne school compared to 160 last year. All grades are staffed, including 3 kindergarten classes, and the teachers have access to new training and consistent pay. 15 Haitian adults have jobs as teachers or staff members at this school. All of these kids are not just learning key skills to give them hope as Haiti’s future but they are hearing the gospel of Jesus regularly! We’re praying that indeed orphan prevention is happening, and that there is even the potential that some of the orphans living in the children’s homes might be re-united with family now that school costs are no longer a burden. The food program is still in development, and we’re praying it will start soon and work well to feed the children.


I've told you our story now. I've wanted to for a long time. Will you make it part of your story? Will you consider giving to help these children continue to go to school or to help the orphan village continue to meet the needs of the fatherless? If you are interested, you can donate and learn more on our website here or you can send us an email so we can give you a call.